Here's the way it must be:
You are a single Pinay, 25-40, coming to Edmonton, Alberta, Canada. You come on your own resources or through the resources of an employer. I CAN NOT HELP YOU COME. More on that a little later.
You are bright and intelligent. You can hold a scintillating conversation in English. Your side of the conversation does not degrade into unsupported/unsolicited opinion nor invective nor silence. You do not need a university degree, but that would be nice. (I have one.) You follow Christ actively, preferably from a Protestant view. You will feel comfortable explaining to me the effect that Jesus has had on your life.
You have humour, and you enjoy humour. Your laugh is easy; your smile is infectious. Your smile is found in more than just your mouth; your smile shows deeply in your eyes too. Furthermore, joy is a visible part of your life.
You have grace and charm, but you also have the endearing quality of a klutz. If you know how to ballroom dance, you will be patient enough to teach me. You have a designer's eye and you will bring class and style into my life devoid of both. You are ready to get all messed up outside, and you can be ready inside an hour for a dress-up social gathering. You are a lady on my arm, and tiger behind closed doors.
You love the finer things in life: Classical music, yes, but you enjoy also easy listening, country, folk, and find rap and hip-hop immature, even disdainful. You love the finer things in life: literature, art, dance, theatre (live and cinema). You love the finer things in life: the little things enthrall you--you love being out doors hiking or walking, maybe camping. You also love staying indoors and cuddling and you are keenly aware of the huge, huge difference between having sex and making love. The former is fine; the latter moves the universe for both of us. You are a one-man woman.
If you have children, that's probably fine, but they must--THEY MUST--be well-behaved, and they must be willing to accept me into your life, maybe into theirs too.
You are one who cultivates dreams into reality. You can articulate what you want sufficiently that it becomes what you are, what you have.
You are drug and disease free. You DO NOT smoke; you might have a social drink now and then.
You are looking for me. You want, you need an articulate, affectionate, attentive man just like me on a very long term basis, perhaps even to marry. It doesn't bother you that I'm older (upper 50s), that I'm a bit overweight, that my divorce is in process.
You realize, intuitively, instinctively, that I need you in all ways of life: Intimately--and that is far more than just the physical. Intimately means in all aspects of our life--goals, dreams, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually. You realize that we need each other, that there is an indescribable hole in each of our beings that only the other can fill. We've each been looking for so long for that one, that special someone, who will fit that space perfectly. Perhaps here we've found each other.
My Someone Special is a woman whose word means something to her and expects it to mean something to me. My Someone Special takes me at my word too. Promises made are meant to be kept. Keeping the little promises results in trust in the big promises.
Once again, you come to me here in Canada without any financial assistance from me. It seems I’ve been scammed and my money is, in a word, gone.
But I'm not giving up. You shouldn't either.
Come as a tourist or come as a Temporary Foreign Worker—it doesn’t matter to me. What does matter: Be here before Christmas. Let's spend Christmas together. Then, after we get to know each other better, let's discuss where we want it to go from there. Use our time together to build friendship, trust, …and we’ll see from there.
I invite you to open the lines of communication when you respond. Use a working e-mail, maybe a yahoo account. If you have a webcam or access to one, that is wonderful, better even than just pictures. Nevertheless, send a picture(s) when you respond.
When you respond, tell me what it is about you that will make me shout, "Eureka! I've found her at last!" Be thorough in your response. No one or two liners, please. Tell me lots. Tell me enough to set you above all the rest. Why should I spend my life with you? Let me know clearly.
Write now. Right now.
And get ready for loving as you might have only dreamed. Let's see if we are meant to be.
- Location: Edmonton, Alberta
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